Wednesday, May 11, 2016

Leading With Wisdom and Servant Influence

I'm not a Luddite, but I do have my tendencies. I make good use of available technologies and enjoy being able to binge watch entire seasons of Stargate and Chuck. I don't speak fluent Geek but I do appreciate good code poetry and can usually hack my way around any program I need given enough time and espresso. However, I do draw the line at ebooks.

I love bookstores almost as much as I love coffee shops.  I can get quickly lost in a bookstore, relishing in the smell of real paper and the sensory overload of titles and genres calling to me from every direction.  Passion and creativity and fresh human ideas set in real ink on real pages that can actually be held and fondled.  There is an unparalleled mnemonic value in such a wedding of the intellectual and the sensual. Undigitized.

I was in a real bookstore just the other day, looking for a particular title by a particular
author purported to be one of the next groundbreaking leadership gurus.  I suppose I could have done an online search, but I'm me.  I've purchased a total of one book online in my life, and that was only because it was an early release of a new work by a friend and was only available in an eVersion.

I found the book I wanted and proceeded to the nearest vacant overstuffed chair.  I wasn't about to take it home and find out later that I'd  just shelled out $21.95 + tax for something that was little more than crap with good marketing.  It took less than ten minutes to scan from cover to cover.  It was crap with good marketing.  One more rebake of Zig Zigler
meets Sun Tzu meets Stephen Covey couched in a lot of theoretical hipster buzz about innovation and disruption and thinly veiled collectivist tendencies, all liberally salted with
just the right amount of righteous indignation and George Carlinesque words-you-can't-say so as to sound edgy and appeal to its hipster and millenial target audiences.  I put it back on the shelf.  Backwards.

As one might expect, the "Leadership" section had hundreds of titles.  Hundreds of voices from competing and synthesizing perspectives, all being marketed as noteworthy leaders of one sort or another.  And why not?  Leadership training is a major industry.

We’ve talked a lot about leadership on our podcast. Real leadership that brings value and influence.  We've talked about the need for Christians to bring biblical values and perspectives to bear in their particular spheres of influence, large and small.  We know that there are effective and ineffective ways of going about that.  And we know that we can influence people in different ways depending on who we are, what we do, and the nature of our relationships.

Any discussion of Godly influence needs to look at biblical examples like Joseph and Daniel.  Both were men who had been positioned to speak wisdom into a cultural context that was decidedly at odds with their own faith perspectives, and yet their activities provided sound redemptive solutions and blessing to those in the broader culture.  Daniel as a key advisor to the king.  Joseph as the architect of a solution to a potential national catastrophe.

God often places us in situations where those around us, even those in high positions of leadership, are dominated and driven by a different set of values and a different view of the world.  How do we navigate that environment?  What does Christ-honoring influence look like in that sort of context?

These are the jumping-off points for our discussion on Thursday, May 12.  Norman Christopher will be our guest.  Norman is currently the Executive Director of Sustainability at Grand Valley State University, and an influential advisor to businesses, educators, innovators, and governmental leaders on the local, regional,  state and national levels.

He is a gifted network builder and an accomplished servant leader. Anyone who meets him quickly discovers that he has a contagious passion for what he does.  He is also a person whose deep Christian faith and practical biblical wisdom form and inform everything about him.  He doesn’t hide his faith from those in his spheres of influence, but he doesn’t insist that they understand “Christianeze” either.  Norman speaks practical truth in their language and leads with action.  And value. And results.  Join us for our conversation on “Leading With Wisdom and Servant Influence”.

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Thursday, May 5, 2016

Seven Words to Transform a Conversation


Are you bothered by much of what you see in your Facebook news feed? Have you been caught off guard by the change of direction that can occur in what you thought was a cordial discussion? By the tone? The self-righteous ugliness displayed, at times, even by people with whom you otherwise might agree?

One of the most troubling trends I've seen of late in some of my "friends" is their recently acquired inability to carry on a civil conversation. It's as though a malevolent social engineer in some clandestine draconian control center flipped a big red switch and suddenly a lot of previously pleasant individuals went into confrontation over-drive. Reasonable dialog is the new oxymoron. Anyone whose opinion deviates even minutely from whatever currently reigning neo-orthodoxy is presumed to cover the topic at hand must either be the devil incarnate, one of his fawning demon seed, a paid minion of George Soros or the Koch brothers, or a drooling semi-literate with the functional IQ of a plastic salad fork.

Now I'm not so naive as to deny outright the probable existence of authentic demon seed, paid minions or salad forks per se. But when I last checked, none of my friends fell into any of those categories. Nor do I.
So what's the deal? Is it something in the water? Or the air? Have people in our culture just forgotten how to talk and listen thoughtfully and with respect? Do we feel as though no one will take us seriously unless we get angry and shout and bully the opposition into submission? Do we really need to see every discussion as a matter of agreement or opposition, ally or enemy?

There are Seven Simple Words that can change the way we relate to one another, regardless of how we might agree or disagree. One simple sentence. Seven Words that have the power to literally shift the social and spiritual atmosphere around you. Seven Words that can frame and transform any conversation or relationship. And I’m not even going to make you listen to a podcast or click a link in order to dig them out. Just try them and see the weight they carry. Here they are:


                 “Love earns the right to speak truth!”

Have I earned the right to speak truth to this person? To this audience? What am I demonstrating by my actions, my tone? What is the real heart behind my words? Are my words being filtered through a spirit of grace?
 

I fear that the current ethos in our culture too often causes the truth we seek to communicate to be lost in a cloud of hostility. Even uncomfortable truth can be spoken in a spirit of grace and love. Otherwise we are talking at rather than with one another.

For more on this, visit Street Faith, our podcast site, and listen or download our latest episode, “Engaging the World in Truth and Love.”